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Most girls love to have fun at discos. As a rule, a girl has many chances to meet her man at a disco. But before going to a disco, many people have the same problem: what to wear to look great at the event, so that everyone will pay attention to you the first time?
Preparation for dancing
What to do if the whole closet is overflowing with absolutely unnecessary things that have nothing to do with the disco? Don’t be upset, because in case of emergency, you can borrow an item from your sister or close friend. But it would be much more pleasant to sew some unique thing with your own hands (if, of course, you like to sew) or go shopping, so that later you can be at ease at the disco.
But if it happens that you are desperately short of time and you don’t have time to sew anything, then wear what you like to wear in everyday life. For this kind of pastime, people usually wear mini dresses, mini skirts or jeans with a blouse, the main thing is not to look like a clown, and not to wear more than three colors. If you question your taste and sense of style, it’s lame, then the way out of the situation is to wear classics. This style will always lend its shoulder and help you, because the classics have always been and will be relevant. Various dresses, skirts, safari style, jeans and classic jackets.
For example, light blue jeans go with all existing colors. Black color always looks stylish and elegant, and a colorful sweater will be combined with a plain plain fabric. White color will give you a festive look, you will look more elegant, and if you love attention, then red will attract a huge number of eyes, and you will be in the center of events. You can choose the color of the things that decorate you most on your own, matching the color of your eyes and hair, especially since this has already been said many times on television and in various magazines, and choosing your own color will not be difficult.
An important point, in order to look even better and fresher at the disco, you should take a shower before going out, wash your face, brush your teeth, and even your look will become more confident, and your eyes, as a rule, speak volumes, just like your gaze. In case you like bright cosmetics: with makeup for a disco, you shouldn’t try too hard so as not to look like the character from the circus mentioned above, and what’s more, you’ll look vulgar and older than your age. You need to choose one thing, either brightly painted eyes, or bright lips, in no case both at the same time, this will be a sign of bad taste and bad taste, and, as everyone thinks, it will not add effectiveness. Makeup should be at least slightly combined with clothes, at least in shade; now the natural tone on the face and natural shades are relevant.
It is also important to remember that it is better not to wear expensive jewelry for this kind of event, because you are not going to a restaurant with live music, and you need to understand where, how and what to wear. Moreover, your jewelry may not be on you when you come home. Anything can happen, but no one likes boasting; it will not elevate you above someone, but on the contrary, it will lower your intellectual abilities. After all, a well-mannered person will never brag. It is best to wear regular jewelry, but not too much, so as not to look like a Christmas tree at a disco.
Behavior rules
So, you have come to the disco, for which you have been preparing so hard all day, and what to do next, how to behave? First of all, it depends on the company. If you came with your girlfriends, then dance calmly and be close to them, maybe a little with the guys, but don’t get carried away and return home only with your girlfriends, you shouldn’t let a stranger you see for the first time get close to you, because you don’t know his thoughts and intentions, be extremely careful.
If you came to the dance with your boyfriend, then be next to him, no matter who you meet at the disco. But you shouldn’t be too strange with them and pretend that you don’t see them, come up, say hello and perhaps introduce the guy so that he knows your surroundings.
It happens that another young man asks you to slow dance, what should you do? The best option, of course, is to refuse, it won’t make you happy, but if you still decide, then ask your boyfriend for approval. After the dance, the young man can thank you for the dance, you shouldn’t do this yourself, because it wasn’t you who invited him, just nod politely in response. If you are tired and don’t want to dance, the phrase “thanks, but no, I’m a little tired” is enough, you shouldn’t be rude, because the person didn’t do anything bad to you, on the contrary, he expressed his preference for you, and not for a hundred girls from this club, this should flatter and be pleasant.
Also, it would not be nice to refuse one guy because of fatigue, and then immediately agree to dance with another. They will definitely not love you anymore for this. Better wait for the next dance.
You should not blindly follow all these rules, because there are situations in which you need to behave correctly, according to moral principles, and not according to etiquette.
Remember, even if you don’t like to obey, that the main thing in a relationship is the man, from time immemorial it has been and will be so, and if you try to refute it with all your might, then you are making it worse for yourself, in the future you will understand, but perhaps it will be too late, after all, not all men will tolerate a woman commander nearby; there are exceptions, but they are extremely rare.
How to behave in a club
If this is your first time visiting a nightclub, an amazing adventure awaits you. The first impression is an unfamiliar atmosphere that excites the senses, cheerful people, a beautiful setting and booming music that makes the heart beat faster and the floor and mirrors vibrate.
So what does a nightclub look like? Traditionally, a dance club consists of a dance floor, a bar and a chill-out area. The main part, of course, is the dance floor, because people come to the club precisely to dance. There must be a special place where the sound engineer and DJ sit. It can be located on a raised platform or simply be separated from the dance floor by a wall. There may be several bars in a nightclub.
A chill-out is a special place in a club equipped with armchairs or sofas. There you can take a little break from dancing. Sometimes a separate room is equipped for a chill-out, furnished with beautiful furniture, always sun loungers and speakers from which calm, quiet music flows. Pots with live plants can also be installed there.
The set of premises including a dance floor, bar and chill-out is standard, but nightclub owners very often try to add variety to it. At one club the main attraction might be some sort of art gallery, at another a giant aquarium, at another a room with trampolines, rings, etc.
Some prestigious establishments may have a VIP room where only the wealthiest clients have the right to be. This is done so that the rich feel like exceptional and most welcome guests, without mixing with the bulk of visitors.
A DJ is a professional musician who writes and mixes electronic music and who is invited to work in a club to provide music for the dance floor.
Every professional DJ adds “features” to his music - so-called sound effects, which are a distinctive feature of his music. They are different for everyone. There are no DJs who play exactly the same music.
It is around the DJ that both the music and the visitors of the night dance club revolve. It is the highlight of any party and event. His work is highly appreciated by both clients and the administration of the nightclub.
Rules of conduct in clubs at corporate parties
Night clubs often rent various reputable enterprises in order to hold their corporate parties. The entire club or several specially designed premises can be rented. The entire club is rarely rented.
If you receive an invitation to a corporate party, you must follow the following rules:
The boss knows everything and notices everything, even if it seems to you that the boss has turned his back to you;
You should dress appropriately for the occasion. Jeans may be appropriate at a picnic or disco, but in this case they will only attract completely unnecessary, and, moreover, disapproving attention to you;
Don’t start talking about your work, because you, like your colleagues, came to the party to relax. Everything has its time;
Try not to be the center of attention, unless, of course, this is provided for by the organizers of the event and your position;
A corporate party is not the right occasion to talk to your boss about a raise or promotion;
Don't pester your colleagues with inappropriate flirting;
A corporate party is considered a kind of work event, so do not drink a lot of alcohol and especially do not take drugs.
In nightclubs, you should never break dishes or break furniture, unless this has been agreed upon with the administration as part of an event or competition. In all other cases, you must apologize and pay for the damage caused.
How to get yourself in order
Correct your hair carefully. If earlier this was only allowed in the ladies' rooms, today you can, without leaving, right in front of others, fasten your hair with a ribbon or hairpin. Combing your hair in this case is considered indecent, because hair can get into a glass or plate, on the clothes, face or hands of the person with whom you are communicating.
Many years ago, women could only touch up their lips in the ladies' room or carefully covering them with a napkin. Today you can freely take out a mirror and lipstick or gloss from your purse and fix your makeup. Nevertheless, it is considered unacceptable to pour out the entire contents of your purse (jars, pencils, brushes, tubes and napkins) on the table or on your lap and start “painting” your lips “in full”, that is, tracing their outline with a pencil, applying lipstick and gloss.
Previously, it was prohibited to use aromatic substances - such as perfumes and deodorants - in public places, including clubs. Today, etiquette allows you to spritz deodorant on your wrist or apply a drop of perfume behind your ear, but that's about it. Do not use deodorant or eau de toilette with a spray bottle.
If you want to lightly powder your face, use compact powder. Under no circumstances take out loose powder and a large brush: if you try to use them, some of the powder will probably get on those around you, which will be very unpleasant for them.
You can take photos and videos in a nightclub only if you have received permission from the administration of the establishment.
The most common drinks in nightclubs are definitely wines, liqueurs and, of course, cocktails, which are even more popular than pure alcoholic drinks such as cognac, champagne, etc. In addition, there are many drinks that, like As a rule, they are used in nightclubs mainly as ingredients for preparing cocktails - these are vermouth, tequila, gin, etc. There are a lot of such drinks, it is not possible to describe them all in this book, so below only the most popular in Russian clubs
The drinks offered in the club can be drunk not only at the bar, although, undoubtedly, this is customary in society. However, since many rules of etiquette in nightclubs are significantly simplified, visitors can freely move around the club with a glass in hand, slowly sipping a delicious, beautifully decorated drink. The only negative point is that you cannot dance with a filled glass, so as not to inadvertently complicate the life of your partner and the people around you, or even yourself.
How to behave in a restaurant
Unfortunately, today many visitors to nightclubs do not want to bother themselves with observing the rules of etiquette, believing that the establishment’s employees are obliged to patiently endure all their antics and rudeness. But it shouldn’t be this way, because etiquette allows you not only to show respect for other people, but also for yourself, and therefore, you cannot do without it.
While sitting at the table, do not talk to the people sitting next to you. If you really need to tell them something, it’s better to sit with them for a while.
Bartenders and waiters
Both bartenders and waiters are, first and foremost, ordinary people who deserve to be treated with sensitivity and respect. Therefore, if you have to deal with them, never do the following:
Don't snap your fingers in the air to get the waiter's attention. This is one of the most unforgivable sins in modern civilized society. In addition to the fact that clicking fingers irritates waiters, they also attract the attention of other customers, greatly disturbing them;
Never argue about who will pay the bill;
Do not call the waiter by loudly banging a fork, knife or spoon on a plate or glass, or by shouting loudly. It's better to wait until he passes by you and show him with a gesture that you need him;
You can tell the bartender from what ingredients and in what proportions the cocktail you ordered should be made, but in no case should you criticize his manner of work if you have not indicated in advance how exactly the mixing should be done.
Rules of behavior in the restaurant
As already mentioned, depending on the status and type of nightclub, you can come to it in different clothes. However, if the club has a restaurant, the requirements for the appearance of visitors who come there are somewhat different. You should prepare especially carefully before visiting a restaurant. Typically, restaurants are located in expensive, presentable establishments, where wealthy people go, initially dressing in the latest fashion, and therefore the clothes they wear to a club restaurant, as a rule, satisfy the most demanding requirements of etiquette.
So, if you are going to dinner at a restaurant, you should definitely wear an evening dress if you are a woman, and if you are a man, then a suit and tie (men without a tie are not allowed in many restaurants) or a tuxedo. Although, in principle, the form of your clothing should correspond as much as possible to the class and level of the cafe or restaurant and, importantly, the nature of the event held there.
Always be polite and friendly in your interactions with establishment staff and other customers. If you have any complaints, politely and quietly express them to the head waiter, and do not make a scandal, even if you really want to do this, because restraint and calm produce a much greater effect than screams and demonstrative stomping of feet.
To say hello to friends who pass by your table, you don’t need to get up, but to talk to them, you should definitely get up.
The employee must lead the clients who enter the hall to the reserved table, offer a menu, give time to make a choice and accept the order.
Approaching the table, the man must help his lady sit down, and then take a seat opposite or to the left of her. If a man arrived earlier than a lady and is waiting for her at the table, the head waiter is obliged to escort the lady to the table. If a man was the first to take a seat at the table, and a lady came later, he must greet her by getting up from his chair and kiss her hand (the latter is not always done).
Once seated at the table, you can take your time studying the menu. The woman orders first. A man orders dishes if his companion asks him to do so. If you don’t quite understand what exactly is hidden behind one or another name of the dishes presented on the menu, ask the waiter about it.
Eat slowly, chewing your food thoroughly. You should start eating only when all the guests at one table have been served the ordered dishes. Women are traditionally served first.
Drinks ordered must match the dishes. Wines go well with main courses, red with meat, and white with fish. If you don't consider yourself a wine connoisseur, ask your waiter for advice.
You should talk quietly at the table so as not to disturb others.
While sitting at the table, watch your posture. You need to sit straight, but without straining. You should only lean slightly on the back of the chair, and not lie on it with your whole body. Don't put your elbows on the table so they don't disturb your neighbors, and, of course, don't lean too low over the plate.
You may have questions about using cutlery. In this case, you should quietly and politely ask the waiter which device is intended for what. More details about cutlery, napkins and table setting rules were described above. They also apply to restaurants.
If you want to leave the table, ask permission from the people sitting at the same table with you. If you are sitting at a table and someone greets you, rise from your chair if you are a man and remain seated if you are a woman. It is indecent to talk on the phone while sitting at the table.
After finishing your meal, ask for the bill. It is usually brought in a folder or on a small tray. This is done so that the calculation can be carried out unnoticed. Tips to the waiter are about 10% of the total bill. They should be given at the time of calculation. Traditionally, the man pays the bill, both for himself and for the lady, but if she wishes, she can pay for herself.
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This is a place where you can be free from the boring images of everyday life. Here you can have a great time with friends, light up, have fun and, of course, dance to your favorite music.
In a web of complexes
But not everyone can throw away their inhibitions and join the dance. Some people are hesitant to step onto the dance floor for fear of being ridiculed for their awkward moves. They prefer to sit at the table, gazing with envy at the lucky ones who were lucky in childhood to end up not in a cross-stitching circle, but in a choreographic studio. Gradually, their self-esteem, and therefore their mood, drops to zero, and the desire to have fun is replaced by the desire to leave this holiday of life for the elite. Common situation? If even a hint of a positive answer flashes through your thoughts, you urgently need to save the situation.
How to learn to dance at a disco in order to become an object of envy yourself? Let's try to figure it out.
Everything is much simpler
95% of guys and girls who fill the dance floors of modern clubs, in principle, do not know how to dance. They do not have choreographic training, they do not know the complex movements developed by famous dance directors, and even the educational videos “How to learn to dance at a disco” passed their attention. Nevertheless, many of them blend quite harmoniously into the atmosphere of dance clubs. What is their secret? No, this is not a great gift, not a miracle or magic. This is the ability to feel the rhythm and move to the beat. Yes, yes, if you plan to become a frequent visitor to discos and an active participant in dance performances, you need to learn to feel the music. There is no way without this.
In reality, dancing at a disco is not as difficult as it might seem at first glance. Dance is an expression of feelings in movement. Ladies are more emotional, so learning to dance at a disco is easier for a girl than for a guy. But representatives of the stronger sex are also able to comprehend the art of dance. Move as you feel, but don't go too far. In order to understand how acceptable your dance feelings are for visual perception, depict your dance at home, in front of a mirror. This way you can look at yourself from the outside, understand which of your movements look attractive and which need to be cut out without unnecessary doubts.
Green light for the dance floor!
Of course, nothing adds confidence like perfect knowledge of your business. A mathematician will easily solve a complex equation, even if he is woken up in the middle of the night, a historian will tell you about the exact chronology of important events at any moment, and a dancer will be happy to show several original steps to complete strangers. In other words, in order to learn how to dance at a disco and conquer everyone with your dance, you need to be patient and prepare for the training course.
The most effective way is to go to a fashionable choreographic studio or hire a private teacher. But not everyone can afford it.
Fortunately, modern technology allows you to learn almost any skill yourself. Today there are a great many step-by-step training videos that allow you to master the art of dance and understand how to dance beautifully at a disco.
You should not try to become a professional in the world of dance in a few days by learning complex steps and combinations. Start with the basics. Learn one simple movement at a time and polish your skills. When you have a sufficient number of movements in your arsenal, try combining and alternating them, inventing your own dance style. Gradually you will understand how to learn to dance at a disco and not be shy, because you will have something to show on the dance floor.
Initial arsenal of movements
If your imagination does not have a creative springboard and is not at all aimed at creating new dance movements, use a set of existing ones that will help you figure out how to dance at a disco for a girl:
Move your body from side to side;
- make swinging movements with your hips;
- depict snake-like movements with your head;
- make circular movements with your shoulders;
- draw waves with your hands;
- hold your back gracefully;
- do not forget about the movement of your legs, move them smoothly and progressively.
1. Be relaxed and don't be shy. Remember that people on the dance floor are more focused on maintaining their image than talking about others.
2. Listen to music and catch the tempo. The melody will help you tune in to the desired wave.
3. Observe the movements that people use during a particular dance. Perhaps some of them will successfully fit into your style.
4. Enjoy your movements. Remember that dancing at a disco is not an exam. This is your freedom of action.
5. Improvise. Perhaps you will find a style that everyone will be delighted with.
Perfect image
So, you've learned some cool dance moves and are ready to show them off to the entire dance floor. But in order to become a real disco star, it is not enough to move well, you need to complement your skills with an interesting visual image.
To go to the club, choose original clothes with a non-standard cut and shimmering texture. Don't be afraid to be original, because disco is the place where people strive to stand out from the gray mass. So feel free to dress up in clothes that seem too bright or chic for everyday wear, but do not forget about your sense of taste. Choose exactly the outfit that will favorably emphasize the advantage of your figure and hide any flaws, if any.
Choose beautiful shoes that match your outfit. But do not forget that you will need to move all night, and this is problematic in uncomfortable shoes that rub. So make sure your shoes are comfortable. Complete your look with original accessories. Even the most beautiful outfit looks dull without decoration.
Be individual! And you will certainly get the desired public attention.
The popularity of nightclubs is difficult to overestimate. Nowadays they have become a cult place for organizing meetings and relaxation. However, in order not to cause misunderstanding and disapproval from others or the club management, the club must adhere to a number of rules.
General rules of conduct in the club
So, here are the basic rules on how to behave correctly in a club:
- When entering the club, it is advisable to put your outerwear and bag in the cloakroom, and put the most valuable things - keys, phone and money - in your pockets;
- Please note that there are a number of things that are prohibited from being brought into the club, these include weapons, drugs and some medications;
- Remember that, as a rule, you cannot bring alcohol with you - you will have to purchase it on the spot, in the club itself;
- You need to behave in a non-confrontational manner in the club. Especially with the club's security service - if they ask you to show the contents of your bag, comply with their request;
- Try not to damage the club's property, otherwise you will have to pay an amount many times greater than the cost of the damaged items.
These rules are universal for all clubs, and they will help you avoid getting into an unpleasant situation.
How to behave properly as a girl in a club
The above tips were devoted to how to behave in a club with the security service and its management so as not to cause conflict situations. However, we should not forget that the majority of people in the club are, first of all, people who came to have fun and relax. Therefore, girls should know a number of recommendations on how to behave correctly with other visitors in order to become part of any crowd, but also not to be considered “accessible”.
So, advice to girls on how to behave correctly in a club with other visitors is as follows:
- When choosing an outfit for going to the club, observe the limits of decency, do not wear the shortest skirt or blouse with a huge neckline; practice has shown that the most ideal option is tight-fitting trousers and a bright T-shirt;
- Do not be shy to dance, because, as a rule, people come to the club precisely for this; if you come unaccompanied, do not refuse the invitations of young people;
- Take part in the competition, but before agreeing, decide whether you are satisfied with the conditions of its holding;
- To behave correctly in a club, know the limits in drinking alcohol, otherwise you may lose your face.
By following these tips, you will have a great time at the club, and you will not scold yourself the next day for wrong actions and actions.
And one more thing: in many clubs there are no prohibitions on photography and video shooting, so many want to document their vacation. However, this issue must be approached wisely.
Here are the basic rules on how photographers should behave in a club:
- To avoid conflicts, do not photograph tipsy or drunk people;
- Do not film fights and other showdowns;
- To avoid getting into trouble, do not take intimate shots with other people;
- Remember, before taking photos of strangers, ask their permission;
- Please note that the best time to take pictures is at the beginning of the party.
If you behave in the club as written in the tips, you will have the most pleasant memories from visiting it and, moreover, you will not put a single person in an awkward position.